Conversational hypnosis and how to learn it.

Conversational hypnosis or covert is being used around you all the time and yet a lot of us do not notice it. Gladly some of us do. However it is really good to be able to learn it and master it for your better good and for those around you.

You see there is always a way to say things and depending on the way you say things will have a big impact on the outcome. You call this conversational hypnosis, it's saying the right thing in the right tone of voice. It can also be about various subject to get the other persons attention so for example using persuasive topics is a good idea, then you are really directing the show.

I have learned a lot of this over the years but never actually realised what I was doing until I trained in hypnosis, then it all became clear to me and I was amazed. So let's look at a common situation to illustrate to you the power of

Okay first things first the tone of your voice has to be calm, not to loud and the words you say to be positive and non confrontational. So you are having a chat with someone, so for example I was talking to my client's daughter last night.

We were talking about school and I asked her what she was planning of doing when she left school, so she said she wanted to do a degree in psychology. I said wow that's very good, I can see you will make a great psychologist and I was smiling at the same time as I was saying it and most importantly had eye contact and our body language was good.

And I mean every word by the way, so then I said to her about some of the training I have done with psycho-analysis and I had her attention, I could see she was totaly focused on me and what I was saying, her eyes were relaxing, a slight gaze and because I was talking to her and being positive and motivating her I had control. This is a good illustration on how to hypnotize someone indirectly.

The whole conversation was based around her but I controlled it from the start and the whole conversation was great for both of us. So this is what you have to do, really learn this art as it is amazing.

Now when you think of it how much conversational hypnosis is going on around us, I mean newspapers, TV, glossy magazines and the radio, even the internet. It is everywhere so we all need to get in on it, change our lives for the better, get our freedom back, be positive and happy.

And another thing I want to say about the whole conversational hypnosis thing is this, you need to be more confident within yourself, sell yourself as you are worth it, as human beings as I have said on some of my previous pages we have so much power and knowledge within us, we truly have, so you need to start tapping into it and using it.

You know I was guilty of that in the past thinking I was not good enough but guess what I am, I realsied this when a few years back in 1997 I was on an evening class learn how to teach adult education. Now at that time I was a qualified Beauty Therapsit and wanted to teach it at college.

Now on my course there were nurses, social workers, I.T experts and so on, we had an exercise to do this one night and we had to prepare a 10 minute micro teach on any subject. I looked around me and though what am I going to talk about, I am surrounded by a lot of people who are more educated than me.

Well to my surprise the social worker said to me " Gillian you are so lucky, you have got so much to talk about eg make up ", and she was concerned that her subject would be boring. Oh I said your subject is not boring quite the opposite, you do such an important job, helping lots of people do not under estimate yourself.

(See how I was using conversational hypnosis). And with me saying that it gave me and her more confidence and us two had a brilliant session. So that was a turning point for me, an enlightening moment and it went on to get better as I got the job I wanted .

So you see when we start to believe in ourself more we can achieve so much and conversational hypnosis is such a big part of you, you just need to start using it more. Just make sure you use it wisely though, and be realistic with your desires etc.

Now body language plays a big part in this to and learn about it, one thing I noticed was subconsciously before knowing what I know now, when you are in the company of say someone you really like, you will find you are mirroring their movements, they cross their legs you do the same, they scratch their nose, you do the same, it just comes naturally as the rapport between you is good.

So what about practicing this on someone you don't know so well, and keeping your tone of voice the same as their's, this is starting the process of conversational hypnosis. Also you need to really catch their attention, choose the right words the right persuasive topic, and as I said earlier, it's being charming and meaning it, always be genuine, people will catch you out if you are not.

Body language again is something you were born with, you know when you like someone don't you, you just know in an instant, you feel it. So check out some of the companies above to learn more and change your life, they may have a different opinion from me about conversational hypnosis which you may or may not prefer, find out for yourself.

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